A Bracha for All Generations

In Parshas Vayechi we find the bracha with which we bless our children every week: "Y'simcha Elokim k'Ephraim v'k'Menashe” (“May Hashem make you as Ephraim and Menashe)” (48:20). Even those who do not have the custom of blessing their children every Shabbos evening use this formulation when blessing their children on Erev Yom Kippur.

There have been many attempts to explain why, of all the great personalities from the Torah and of all the illustrious personages of Jewish history, Ephraim and Menashe were chosen to be the eternal role models for Jewish male children. Why not bless our children to be as Avraham, Yitzchak and Yaakov? Why not Moshe and Aharon? After all, the bracha given to girls on Shabbos is that they should be like the Imahos - Sarah, Rivkah, Rachel and Leah. The bracha for boys, however, passes over the Avos and the twelve Shevatim and instead focuses on the sons of Yosef: Ephraim and Menashe. What special qualities did Ephraim and Menashe manifest that made them worthy of being the paradigm of blessing for our sons?

Mikdash Mordechai explains that brotherly relationships in the Torah had always been associated with strife and jealousy. The first brothers, Kayin and Hevel, seemed to set the archetype for what was to follow. Nearly all of the subsequently mentioned groups of brothers in sefer Bereishis such as Yitzchak and Yishmael, Yaakov and Esav, Yosef and his brothers, all had relationships characterized by contention. Ephraim and Menashe had the potential and setting for a similar type of strife. Yaakov had placed his right hand on the head of the younger Ephraim and had also placed Ephraim’s name first in the bracha when he was blessing these brothers. Although this could have caused Menashe, the first-born, to feel animosity toward Ephraim and could have marred their relationship, they maintained true brotherly camaraderie and love.

We too bless our children that they and their relationships should, in that respect, be as Ephraim and Menashe: filled with understanding, respect and love for others.

Eved HaMelech, on the other hand, offers an alternate explanation. Ephraim and Menashe were the only Shevatim that were born in Mitzrayim. The other tribes had spent their formative years basking in Yitzchak and Yaakov’s spiritual glow, constantly benefitting from their positive influences in pursuing the path of Hashem. In direct contrast, base and lewd Egyptian officials would frequent Ephraim and Menashe's home during their formative years. They nevertheless managed to abstain from those negative influences and temptations and stayed true to the teachings of their father Yosef. As a result, Yaakov found them worthy of being counted amongst the twelve Shevatim.

The bracha instituted to brace our generations of children through the arduous path of exile and foreign influences was that they should be like Ephraim and Menashe - strong, confident and secure in who they are and the mission they have in life. The clear knowledge of who we are and where we come from will allow us to make it through the travails of our odyssey, firm, secure and committed, just like Ephraim and Menashe. This, coupled with the warmth and camaraderie exemplified by Ephraim and Menashe, will allow these travails to speedily, in our days, come to an end. Chazak, Chazak V'nitchazeik!

Mr. Jeff Ganeles

 
Chanukah Celebration With Meaning

On December 9/2 Tevet, Rambam Mesivta had its Annual Chanukah Chagiga. It was outstanding! There was great music by the school band led by Rabbi Boiangiu and Tani Martin. Additionally, there was a great surprise appearance by Gary Wallin who added a tremendous amount of fun. The dancing with our Rebbeim was intense. All of a sudden, however, the music stopped, and we were informed that there was going to be a special performance by the Rambam Harmonidies. Aaron Kattan, Eric Grossman, Didi Levy, and Tani Martin, dressed in identical Rambam t-shirts, suddenly burst out the Maccabeats hit song and Youtube sensation, “Candlelight.” The Maccabeats might have some competition on their hands real soon. The Chanukah Chagiga also featured a very poignant moment when the festivities were halted for a very moving announcement by Principal Rabbi Yotav Eliach. Rabbi Eliach had recently sent over thousands of dollars worth of scarves, hats, gloves, and thermals for Rambam Alumnus Jeremy Kugalman’s Golani Unit stationed in Israel. These donations were made possible through the efforts of the Rambam students who raised money for this endeavor. Rabbi Eliach informed the assembled crowd that he received a sincere thank you note from Jeremy and his unit. He then unfurled a Golani Unit banner that was sent by Jeremy and his fellow soldiers in the IDF and the place went crazy! Dancing ensued with the Golani flag being (literally and figuratively) felt by all. It was a blast!

Eli Lava (9th Grade)

 
- Chagiga Raffle Raises Gelt

This past Thursday, at the conclusion of the Chagiga, there was a Chanukah raffle organized by the school’s Chesed Club. This group of individuals, led by Mr. Jeff Ganeles, Shlomo Ross and Zach Stern, has spent their Club Hour designing and implementing this charity event that cost essentially nothing and ended up raising over $400. Students purchased tickets to win prizes donated by teachers. Prizes included lunch with various administrators and teachers, golf with Mr. Kelly, extensions on papers, and much more!

Congratulations to all of our winners!

 
1st Place Torah Bowl Team

This past Monday, the Rambam Torah Bowl Team won 3 out of their 4 matches. Led by Elisha Pearl, the team had an exemplary day. At one point, Elisha scored 9 points in one round. The Torah Bowl Team is a great way to learn Torah, add a little competition, and have a lot of fun. Congratulations to the entire team and may there be many more victories to come!

Binyamin Wallin (9th Grade)

 
JV Hockey on March to the Playoffs

Saturday night two undefeated teams faced each other in what was about to be the most essential game of the season. DRS had lost their perfect season to us just a month prior and now this game would determine first place. Chanani Levy’s outstanding play preventing DRS from scoring in all 3 periods, and Rambam’s gym was as loud as it could possibly be. The game went into overtime and no one could score. At the end of the night Rambam improved their undefeated record to an impeccable 4-0-2 and is currently in sole possession of first place.

Eli Lava (9th Grade)

 
A 0-0 Victory

No matter how many times an orange Mylec hockey ball is shot into a concrete wall, it will never manage to penetrate the solid structure. An exact comparison to this scenario was the goaltending of Chananel Levy who played for the Rambam Ravens JV hockey team on Saturday night against the DRS Wildcats. The game was completed in a stunning 0-0 tie and was achieved through the powerful defensive play of Jeremy Bock, Mendy Dufler and Michael Teichberg. Nevertheless, the crown of the night was most certainly given to the goaltender Chananel Levy. He played with the concentration of a massive impassable bolder and moved with the ferocity of a lion out to lunch. Never in Yeshiva League hockey has a goalie saved nearly 100 shots and survived to tell the tale. History was made in the Rambam gym on Saturday night as the JV hockey team made a statement about the strength of their defense and rattled the bones of every hockey player in the Yeshiva League.

Didi Levy (11th Grade)

 
Rambam Meet The Author Book Club Meets Pulitzer Prize-Nominated Poet

192 Books in Manhattan has played host to Salman Rushdie, Ethan Hawke, Michael Cunningham, Alice Monroe, and now Elizabeth Alexander and Rambam Mesivta. Professor Alexander of Yale University, a Pulitzer Prize nominated poet, is best known for reading the poem, “Praise Song for the Day,” at the inauguration of President Barak Obama.

The Meet The Author Book Club received autographs from Professor Alexander and engaged her in conversation about the writing process, publishing, and politics. After Freshman Yosef Wallin asked a question about her poem, “Rally in 2008,” she called him a “Good listener.” Junior Jon Beer asked why her poems were “A little all over the place.” She gracefully responded that “He was right, but they aren’t quite random, they are just mysterious.”

It is always interesting to see how beautiful works of art are formed and it is the goal of this club to bring writing to life and celebrate the works of living authors in intellectually stimulating environments. This year’s campaign is off to a good start and we are looking forward to our next event.

 
Did You Know?

Did you know that during the Middle Ages Jews had to take a humiliating oath when they were required to testify in court? The oath was called the "More Judaico" and it was still in use during the 19th century. In France before being admitted to the Bar, Jewish attorneys not only would be required to hear the reading of the "Tokhehah," but were forced to wear a crown of thorns while the applicable passages of the Torah were read to them. In our Jewish history class, students learned about the "More Judaico" while studying the events related to the infamous Damascus Affair of 1840 (a blood libel incident that took place in a Muslim country.)

A translated text of a typical "Oath More Judaico" is attached to this article. It was taken from the Encyclopedia Judaica.

 
Seller of the Week and iPad Winner

Congratulations to Michael Nadelbach on winning the $100K raffle “iPad Drawing.” Michael has worked very hard to sell tickets and has sold 14 to date. Looks like his hard work has paid off! Keep up the great work everybody and stay tuned for upcoming drawings.

On a separate note congratulations to Eric Grossman for earning this week’s “Seller of the Week” award. He will be receiving a $10 Carlos & Gabby’s gift card. Eric has sold 14 tickets and is still going strong. Keep up the good work!!

Please report your sold tickets to Yigal Sasportas at the business office and you can be our next Carlos & Gabby’s winner!

 
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Editors: Michael Rosenfeld and Eli Lava
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