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Acting "Too Jewish"
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One of the routines that Jackie Mason is famous for is his chastisement of Jews for being afraid of appearing “too Jewish.” After all, we as a people have contributed so much to the world and continue to do so-so why not let everyone know how proud we are to be Jews? Yet, despite our seeming right to be proud, we find Jews who are almost “ashamed” of their heritage and hence become the target of Jackie Mason's barbs. On the other hand, we are also aware of a number of occasions where people in the Jewish community are very “in-your-face” and provoke the ire of the community at large. They act in an obnoxious manner and flaunt their Judaism as a badge of entitlement. Clearly, the challenge we face is to navigate between the two extremes.
Perhaps one could suggest that the proper balance that we all should follow is found in this week’s Parsha, Ki Tavo, perek 28, pasuk 10 which states when "the peoples of the earth see that the name of Hashem is proclaimed over you, and they will revere you." Chazal teach us that this Pasuk is referring to tefillin shel rosh, namely when we properly fulfill the mitzvah of wearing tefillin on our heads it will evoke the awe of those who observe us. Tefillin, amongst other things, demonstrates our subservience to Hashem and a commitment to the life of Torah. When we sincerely put on tefillin with this mindset we are transformed from the mundane to the holy. In fact, in an ideal world, men would be wearing tefillin all day long to demonstrate this elevated state of mind. Respect from those around us comes not because we demand it, promote it or push it, but rather because “we earned it.” We have nothing to fear in being “too Jewish” if we only seek to fulfill the will of Hashem. However, if we have an agenda to promote and attempt to use our Jewishness to secure it, we will fail in our mission as Jews.... even if we happen to succeed and achieve our personal goals.
May we be zocheh and deserving to realize a year of respect and awe from the nations of the world.... so that we can live in peace and harmony and fulfill our missions as Torah Jews, inspiring all who observe us.
Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Zev Meir Friedman |
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Freshman Orientation – Rambam Class of 2015 |
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The rain may have been coming down hard this past Tuesday but that definitely did not stop the new freshman class at Rambam from having a blast! Almost fifty boys from thirteen different schools all over the tri-state area came together to meet each other for the first time (myself included).
Rabbi Friedman, Rabbi Eliach, Rabbi Haar, Mr. Goldman, Mr. Schildkraut, and Coach Rhine greeted everyone with words of encouragement asexplained what is to be expected of the four phenomenal upcoming years and reminded everyone of the procedures. The boys were then treated to a delicious “pizza party” lunch.
No matter what the weather may be Rambam will never let their students down. Before you knew it, the incoming class found themselves at Woodmere Bowling Alley where they enjoyed two thrilling games of Bowling. They then returned to school for some hoops and soccer! Everyone may have been meeting each other for the first time, but it didn’t take long to feel at home. What better way to be welcomed into Rambam!
Jacob Friedman (9th Grade) |
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Shabbaton: A Sophomore’s Perspective |
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Rambam’s 20th Annual Shabbaton at Camp Seneca Lake proved to be exuberant. Freshmen went up Thursday, and had all the facilities to themselves while the rest of the school camp up on Friday. Following lunch, we had 3 to 4 hours to utilize all of Seneca’s state of the art facilities. Some played roller hockey, basketball, baseball, others swam, and some went to the fitness center. It was a fun-filled day.
The real crux of the weekend began Friday night with a lively Kabbalas Shabbos from one of our Alumni advisers. Following an inspiring davening and dvar Torah from Mr. Goldman, we all headed to the dining room for the Friday night meal, which was filled with exceptional food, outstanding Dvrei Torah from Rabbi Konig, and uplifting zemiros. Following the gala kiddush and meal shabbos day, intriguing shiurim were delivered throughout the day given by Rabbi Horowitz, Rabbi Haar, and Rosh HaMesivta, Rabbi Friedman. Saturday night, after a one of a kind Havdalah, everyone had several hours to play hockey, basketball, swim, use the gym, and much more. At 11:00PM, the Melava Malka began. The Melava Malka featured outstanding food, intense dancing led by the music of our own Rabbi Boiangiu, and much more! ).
On Sunday, following Shacharis and a big breakfast we boarded the busses to go home. Thanks to all the administration, faculty, and especially students for making this a memorable weekend. A very special thank you to Mr. Goldman and Mr. Rhine for all the planning and logistics that went in to making the Shabbatone an epic success.
This Tuesday night Rambam had its junior varsity basketball tryouts. There was a major turnout, almost 40 kids. We started with layups and one on one, then finally on to five on five. During the scrimmages everyone really gave it their best and it showed on the court. There were many talented sophomores and freshman, who together will really make a great team. You could really see that the jv rambam basketball team has a lot of potential and we are looking forward to a great season with our coach Judah Rhine . Go ravens!
Liam Eliach (10th Grade) |
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Shabbaton: An Advisor’s Perspective |
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This week, all of Rambam headed over to Camp Seneca Lake to spend a weekend bonding as a school. This goal, in my mind, was fulfilled with flying colors. To my delight and disbelief, I was invited to go up to Seneca a day early with the freshmen to be a senior adviser. What did this mean? This meant that I, and other seniors, would be the “older brothers” to the freshmen. At first I was a little hesitant, who am I to help the freshmen integrate into high school when I have only been in Rambam for one year! But, this fear was quickly quelled after meeting the new Rambam grade.
Seconds after getting out of my car and onto the bus to the Shabbaton, I had loads of freshmen coming over to me and very bluntly introducing themselves with honorable courage. Soon after embarking, I was already sitting in the back of the bus, just chilling with a bunch of freshmen and getting to meet these awesome people. I went over and made sure to introduce myself and talk to all of the kids on the bus, right up until arrival to get to know them all.
After the inevitable confusion of rooming, and getting everyone sorted into the correct bunks, the games began. Everyone broke off and ran to play whatever sport that the beautiful campus of Seneca has to offer. Me, being the hockey type, took some kids, and got a hockey game going. Soon after the start of the game, the kids that before have never met each other, were running, laughing, and playing together like they were old friends.
The next day, the rest of the school arrived and, well, the more the merrier! Once they came up, we all just played with more people, made more friends, and more life-long relationships. I can't say what happened all over the camp, but, I can imagine it was very similar to my awesome experience.
Shabbos arrived with a bang. Together with the awe inspiring davenings led by fellow classmates, the great shiurim from our rebbeim, and hanging out with new-found friends, I left Shabbos on a spiritual and emotional high.
Although I have always heard that “All good things come to an end,” I was definitely saddened when the announcement came over the intercom that it was time to board the buses again. But what placated me was the fact that I knew the next day, I would walk down the hallways of Rambam not seeing everyone as strangers anymore, but as friends, and classmates.
Binny Zupnick (12th Grade) |
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Return of the Alumni
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Andrew Parver, Rambam Class of 2001, clad in an authentic, commemorative Rambam 20th Anniversary sweatshirt, made a triumphant return to Rambam. His purpose? Chesed, Since graduating Rambam, Andrew has become the Director of Education at the Hebrew Free Burial Society. He spends his time encouraging young people to get involved in chesed shel emet. He and Mr. Goldman have coordinated a chesed mission for the 9th graders to help clean up a cemetery next week.
It is good to know that when a young man like Andrew graduates Rambam, he emerges dedicated to helping the community and leading others to do so. |
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Meet the New Rebbe
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What is your full name?
Yehoshua Konig.
Where did you grow up?
Belle Harbor, Rockaway Beach area.
What high school did you graduate from?
Rambam.
What yeshiva did you graduate from?
Kerem B'Yavneh (KBY).
What unit in the army were you?
Gdood Shimshon גדוד שמשון.
Is Rambam the first school you taught in?
Yes.
If you wouldn't have been a teacher, what would you have done?
I would be in law school.
How did you like your stay in Israel?
I Loved it, it was great!
What do you think about Israel's future?
As long as kids, like you, grow up to love Israel, it'll be great.
What do you think about Rambam?
Great place, with a great perspective, and great kids.
What did you think about the Shabbaton last week?
There was great ruach and torah learning, can't wait for next year!
Investigative Reporting by: Itai Flam & Netanel Sapir
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"Those who forget history are doomed to repeat it" |
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This past Monday we had our 10th Annual 9\11 assembly as a reminder of the horrors of that September day. Rabbi Eliach showed us, the Rambam students, videos of the terrors of that day, and taught us how we must be vigilant in the fight against terror. A first-hand account of 9\11 was shared with us, in the inspiring story of a Hatzolah member who wanted to help the victims. This assembly taught us many things, but the most important one is to never forget.
Binyamin Wallin (10th Grade)
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9/11: A Ten Year Perspective
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Almost every New Yorker remembers that day distinctly: The smoke, the fire, the panic, the fear that the fabric of reality itself was becoming undone. To say that this nightmare was traumatizing is an understatement. Once the tallest buildings in the world, glittering monuments of civilization, an investment of six years and billions of dollars, all undone in a moment. The sheer magnitude of the destruction is hard for the mind to comprehend.
The importance of remembering the day cannot be stressed enough. The day changed much about America and continues to impact the world to this day. But as important as it may be to remember what happened, it is even more important that we consider the lessons of the day, and their messages for all of us.
One lesson is that religion matters. In the increasingly secular West, there is a tendency to dismiss religion as an anachronism, something from a bygone era. It’s not; religion is a key policy issue – perhaps THE key policy issue – in much of the world. And religion manifests itself in complex ways. There are religious texts and religious observances, and sometimes the one has little or nothing to do with the other. Religious fanatics can result from extremist texts, but also from peaceful texts that are simply reinterpreted. Religion and cultural norms, like Middle Eastern tribalism, can combine to produce a toxic product.
When the message of tribalism - me against my brother, me and my brother against my cousin, me, my brother, and my cousin against the stranger – intermingles with religion, the results can be monstrous.
Policymakers need to begin understanding religion rather than dismissing it.
Another lesson is the need to eschew revenge, and instead to pursue proper justice. The American people boiled with righteous anger at those who had caused the devastation and attempted to destroy our way of life. Another nation might have spent its energies destroying without mercy its enemy, killing and slaughtering all who stand in their way. But instead, the United States truly pursued justice, seeking to target those who deserved retribution as opposed to the many who did not. When Osama Bin Laden was killed, it would have been only too easy to show the pictures, to gloat in his death. But the United States did not kill Osama Bin Laden - it executed him. Justice was carried out, and justice is the true enemy of evil. When the Nuremberg trials more than six decades ago put to trial mass murderers, what stands out today was the elaborate system of justice that was taking place before everyone’s eyes. Germany was rebuilt, largely with US money. This pursuit of justice is what established America’s reputation as the homeland of peace and civilization.
Finally, when Americans watched the towers fall, they were united as never before. The nation came together as one, because for a moment we seemed close to losing all that we cherished most – freedom, life, liberty, and equal opportunity for all citizens. This is what America stands for, and this is what was truly attacked on that day. The day reminds us that we should continue to cherish these values every day, not only on days when they are threatened.
Avi Gross (10th Grade) |
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Sunday: Special Rosh Hashana Shiur
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Sponsor Learning
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If you would like to sponsor a day of learning in honor or memory of a loved one, please email reneefriedman@rambam.org for more information. |
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